dan savage at white house pride reception: obama won’t support marriage before ’12 election, im not furious

Below is the official White House Press Pool Report from President Obama’s Pride reception at the White House.

In it you will see that Dan Savage thinks supporting gay marriage is being “out on the furthest limb” for Obama so he isn’t furious with him for his position.  Savage also predicts that Obama won’t ”evolve” on gay marriage until February, 2013 – after the next presidential election.  You will also see that union spokesman Gregory King thinks gays aren’t prioritizing marriage so Obama doesn’t need to either.  With supporters like these it’s no wonder Obama doesn’t feel pressure from the gay community.

From: Julie Mason
To: Finkenbinder, Benjamin N.
Cc: Hughes, Caroline E.
Sent: Wed Jun 29 18:43:29 2011
Subject: Pool Report #1 pride reception

No, he didn’t endorse gay marriage.

The East Room contained: a few hundred attendees, a full bar, a couple of small, round tables covered in shimmery purple cloth piled high with canapes and desserts: puff pastries, baby lamb chops, mini cupcakes, slices of cake and more. The centerpieces were oversized bouquets of roses in pink, orange, red and purple. A band played light jazz and R&B.

The crowd was mostly white and the men significantly outnumbered the women. Dan Savage was there — quotes from him after Obama.

Obama entered the room at 6 p.m. to huge cheers. Facing north, he assured the crowd that “Nothing ruins a party like a long speech from a politician” and promised to go short. He talked about his accomplishments so far — hospital visits, DADT, DOMA, etc.

He said he understands the frustration many in the gay community feel about the pace of accomplishments — “I know I can count on you to let me know,” he said. “This is not a shy group.”

The crowd interrupted him a few times with spontaneous cheers and applause — when he mentioned “spouses” (without endorsing the concept) and more.  Check the transcript. He spoke for about nine minutes.

Dan Savage, a columnist, author and gay activist was there with his husband (they married in Canada), Terry Miller. Dan was wearing a black and white plaid shirt with a small button that said, “evolve already.” Terry wore a white shirt with a hot pink bow tie.

“I believe the president should evolve,” Savage said. “He says he’s evolving, I believe him.” He added, “I want to hurry him along.”

Savage, a strong proponent for gay marriage, said his presence at the White House should not be construed as a surrender on the issue. “We can scream and yell and be dicks and wear buttons” and still eat Obama’s cupcakes and drink his champagne, Savage said.

He predicted Obama’s evolution on gay marriage would be complete in February, 2013. Savage called Obama’s politics “the art of the possible.”

“We need to keep the pressure on and take ‘yes’ for an answer,” Savage said.

“I’m not one of the gay activists furious at the president because he’s not out on the furthest limb” on gay marriage, Savage said.

Also in the room and willing to make eye contact with the pool: Gregory King, a spokesman for AFSCME and a former spokesman for the Human Rights Campaign Fund.
King said, “I think Obama has done more for the LGBT community than any president in history.”

“He’s been effective at bringing change and ending discrimination,” King said.

Regarding gay marriage, “I know many couples who wouldn’t place that at the top of the agenda,” King said.

Julie Mason
POLITICO

advocate magazine covers-up the democratic label for anti-gay politician

The powerful anti-gay Democratic State Senator from New York, Carl Kruger, was outed this month by the New York Post for allegedly taking bribes that were used to partially pay for his gay lover’s water front mansion.  In its front page March 11 story, the Post outed the Democrat as a hypocrite because of his 2009 vote to deny equal marriage rights to gays despite having an alleged romantic relationship with a man.  The Post labeled the politician’s partisan affiliation prominently in the first sentence of the article.  The same day, New York Magazine used the label “Democratic” as the third word in its first sentence to describe Kruger in its’ breaking news story.  New York Magazine even finished their piece by admonishing, “if true, it serves as a helpful reminder that the phenomenon of hypocritical politicians who live gay lives in secret, but vote against gay issues in public, is not reserved for only one side of the aisle.”  But The Advocate magazine, the supposed promoter of gay rights and reason, only sits on the left side of the aisle.  It dropped Kruger’s political affiliation from its story’s headline and lead paragraph when it announced the influential Democrat’s troubles.  In fact, the editors of The Advocate only alluded to Kruger’s political affiliation in the last sentence of the last paragraph of their story by saying Kruger was “one of eight New York Democrats to vote against the state’s marriage equality bill, which failed to pass the senate.” 

Was it a mistake or was it deliberate? A look at the facts suggests it is part of The Advocate’s ongoing partisan bias – a bias permeating the gay media, but not always part of the left’s media playbook.  The Advocate’s cover-up and obvious strategic move is steeped in history.  Earlier this year on January 3, The Advocate writer Julie Bolcer wrote an article titled: “Iowa Republican Obsessed With Marriage Issue?”  Note the partisan affiliation announced in the title.  The lead sentence in Bolcer’s story also messaged the anti-gay candidate’s political relationship, “A friend and former campaign adviser to Iowa gubernatorial candidate Bob Vander Plaats says the Republican who led the recall effort against three state supreme court justices, is “obsessed with the gay-marriage issue.”” The word “Republican” is used consecutively throughout Bolcer’s piece and in gratuitous ways.

But it wasn’t the first or last time The Advocate tried its’ partisan tactic.  In November 2010, Bolcer also wrote an article titled: “Iowa Republican Predicts Removal of More Judges”.  Note the title announcement of the politician’s political affiliation again.  The lead sentence of Bolcer’s piece also once again messages the anti-gay politician’s political party connection, “Following a voter recall of three Iowa supreme court justices who voted for marriage equality, state senate Republican leader Paul McKinley said the four remaining justices would be at risk of losing their jobs unless lawmakers give Iowans a chance to vote on a constitutional amendment to outlaw same-sex marriages.”

And in October of 2010, Bolcer writes yet another article for The Advocate about an anti-gay candidate titled: “N.Y. Republican: Gays Are “Dysfunctional”.  The hopeful politician’s political attachment was also described in Bolcer’s first sentence, “Carl Paladino, the Republican candidate for governor in New York.”  It’s a pattern consistently repeated throughout The Advocate’s online archive.

The Advocate’s obvious double standard in describing politicians’ political affiliations is glaringly partisan.  When a Republican is anti-gay, the political relationship will be announced in the title of the article, messaged in the lead sentence and repeated throughout the piece.  But when a Democrat is anti-gay, the political membership will not be mentioned in the article’s title or even lead sentence.  In the case of Kruger, The Advocate only took a passing shot by referring to the politician’s colleagues’ political association.

Even New York Magazine, known for being a left-wing operation, describes Kruger as a Democrat.  So why would The Advocate cover it up?  Continuing to shill for the Democratic party after its’ disastrous two years of Washington control is foolish and naive.  And pretending that anti-gay elements exist in just the Republican party alone is one of the erroneous assumptions that led to Prop 8’s passage in California.  Readers deserve better from a publication calling itself their advocate.  As for the editors, for whom do they think they are advocating?

gay leaders need a tea party shakeup; 111th congress a total failure

The entrenched gay leaders in Washington, DC, have spent the last two years blaming Republicans for the fact that they themselves have struck out on Capitol Hill and will end the 111th Congress with nothing to show for their multimillion-dollar fundraising efforts.  If this were a public company, the Board or the shareholders would have run these leaders out of town a long time ago. 

Despite campaigning for decades to put Democrats in control of all of Washington, their dream ticket of Nancy Pelosi, Harry Reid and Barack Obama failed to deliver what the gay leaders themselves promised the movement.  Led by Joe Solmonese of Human Right Campaign and Aubrey Sarvis of the Servicemen’s Legal Defense Network, gay leaders have been tripping over themselves to protect President Obama from blame for not making the promised progress on gay equality.  Solmonese and Sarvis are the faces of the most expensive failed gay campaign in history.  Other gay leaders in Washington also have turned their comfortable and high-paying perches into a safe haven free from the consequences of job performance evaluations. 

Gay Americans from outside Washington should demand that they stop sacrificing progress to further their personal political careers.  It’s time we found some young gay leaders who will work for equality and not be concerned about pleasing the Democratic Party.  

Gay politics are not black and white.  It isn’t true that all Democrats are good on gay issues and all Republicans bad.  The outcome of the Prop 8 vote in California, where the traditionally Democratic state also overwhelmingly voted for Barack Obama for President, proves that Democrats have a lot of work to do in their own party.  Republicans have failed us, too.  I am not suggesting we dismiss the GOP sins of advocating for small government policies while practicing intrusive, big government tactics.  But Republicans who advocate laissez-faire principles can be great allies, just as liberal Southern Democrats can be strong opponents working against us.  But Somonese and Sarvis have never seen it this way.  For them, it’s all a process to help the Democratic Party win more seats.  And for this failed strategy, they should be judged harshly.

The partisan leaders of the gay and lesbian movement in Washington have spent endless political capital telling us that we would be better off if all of our elected officials were Democrats.  They have spent millions of dollars trying to convince us that we will be taken care of by a partisan Democratic America.  At the same time, they have also secured their positions of prominence within the Democratic Party by being able to deliver the gay vote.  Sadly, we have become tokens for their careers.  In early 2009, Sarvis sent a strong message to his Democratic friends that it wasn’t the right time for the Democratic Party to take up gay issues yet.  He told the Washington Times that waiting until at least 2010 for some LGBT victories made sense.  “Where does ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ fall in all this?,” Sarvis asked.  “I would say it is not in the top five priorities of national issues.”  His Board should have fired him on the spot.

It is painfully obvious that the national gay leaders have promoted their own partisan agendas and careers within the Democratic Party instead of working to ensure passage of civil rights.  Solmonese, a seasoned Democratic Party activist who at first maneuvered for a political appointment in the Obama Administration, couldn’t even move Speaker of the House Nancy Pelosi, who represents the gayest district in the country, to put DADT or gay marriage up for a standalone vote in the House.  And Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid easily manipulated gay leaders into supporting him to wait until after November’s elections to put controversial issues up for votes.  Reid wanted this issue to be unresolved going into November’s elections and Solmonese and Sarvis allowed it.  The real tragedy is that gay leaders in Washington don’t have enough moxy to move their own political party – the party that controls the White House, the Senate and the House.  It is a sign that they either don’t have the skills to make political progress or are too close to the Democratic leadership and therefore unwilling to make the necessary push.  We can do better and we should start by demanding for Somonese’s and Sarvis’ resignations.